People who care pray. That is not meant to be judgmental or unkind but to bring attention to our need to pray and do something for the sake of children so they won’t have to grow up in broken families or violent or angry or troubled families.
If you care, then you are already doing something about this problem. If you care, you will not let these things remain unopposed. How do I know? Well, you’re here reading this? That’s taking action. That’s caring!
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church
How is your marriage?
I almost cringe to ask that question because many who come to this site come here looking for help. Some people are wonder
- Can I save my marriage?”
- If adultery is involved, is it too late?
- Should I get a divorce?
- Where can I find help to save my marriage?
- What can I do about child custody?
- What can I do about child support?
- What is parental alienation syndrome?
This site is here to help you find answers to these questions. It is also here to help people who want to join together and bring changes to some corrupt laws such as
- Unilateral no-fault divorce that favors the unfaithful
- Federal funding for child support enforcement that in essence bribes the courts to favor the unfaithful and the stronger potential payer.
- Corruption that pays attorneys to lose their client’s cases
- Corruption that drags the faithful into court to be threatened with the loss of everything precious, then uses that to extort protection money in the form of attorney fees
- Corruption that threatens you, your children, your loved ones
Your senators and your representatives could speak out against this very obvious and very widespread corruption, but they are afraid. They are afraid of the power of a very large legal community who prospers from the destruction of children’s families.
If we do not speak up, if we do not protest loudly, if we do not bring substantial political pressure to overcome this corruption, then it will remain as it has been for the past 35 years, and millions of families, faithful parents, and children will suffer.
And you can be sure it will affect you.
Uncategorized
One thing divorce and substance abuse have in common is they are both bad solutions to ordinary problems.
In fact, neither substance abuse nor divorce are solutions. They are escapes. When people sign up for marriage, they sign up to be warriors of love, honoring, cherishing, making choices to seek wisdom to create a family together with somebody and bless that family with love.
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Addiction Crisis
Divorce — The Worst Child Abuse
Depriving children of the faithful love between their parents is as abusive as depriving them of food, clothing, water, and air. Too many times adults try to comfort themselves with the notion that the children will be OK, but that does nothing at all for the children and only helps sooth the consciences of their unfaithful and unloving parents.
What if somebody threw scalding hot water into the face of a child an said, “Children are resilient and heal quickly?”
Yet we throw scalding hot divorces into the face of our children and say, “Children are resilient and will be OK if we handle this divorce like adults.”
Nothing shows more cowardice or contempt for our children’s well-being than when we shelter ourselves from their suffering so we can divorce comfortably.
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Crusade
Divorce and adultery are among the most severe forms of child and spousal abuse.
Suggested Reading
The pattern
Adultery often begins with one spouse using the threat of unfaithfulness or divorce to bully their way to instant gratification. This pattern of behavior does not usually begin during marriage or even during courting, but it usually begins in childhood with parents, siblings, and friends.
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Marital Struggles, Marriage Counseling
Mark 6:17-18
17: For Herod himself had given orders to have John arrested, and he had him bound and put in prison. He did this because of Herodias, his brother Philip’s wife, whom he had married.
18: For John had been saying to Herod, “It is not lawful for you to have your brother’s wife.”
Questions
- Did Herod marry Philip’s wife? (See verse 17)
- Did John say it was ok for them to stay married since they had already married?
- Do you defend second marriages between unfaithful spouses and their affair partners, or do you admonish the unfaithful to divorce the second spouse and return to the first spouse?
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Dealing with Divorce
One of the hardest thing for many victims of adultery and divorce to do is to set aside pride and get help when it is needed. We feel disgusted and angry with lazy people who coast through life on welfare while letting everyone else pay. But, we fail to see that there are times when using welfare is the wise and honorable thing to do.
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E-books
How to Pray for Lost Loved Ones
by Dutch Sheets
This book is small but awesome and to the point if you have lost loved ones. And, if someone in your life is unfaithful in marriage, this book can help learn what it takes to become effective in prayer.
Prayer
Recommended E-Book
Save My Marriage Today
By: Amy Waterman, M. A.
I have not read this e-book personally, but it has obtained very high reviews Sometimes a little help from a book like this can help bring life back to a marriage quickly.
E-books, Marital Struggles, Marriage Counseling
Recommended E-Book
Saving Your Marriage With Love, Trust, and Commitment
How to Save Your Marriage or Relationship
Even if You Have Lost All Hope
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