Suicide is another common fallout of our high divorce rates. People who commit suicide do not want to die. They want to stop the pain.
Sometimes children commit suicide to get revenge with their parents for breaking up the family. It’s an expression of anger. Children often feel that their pain is too great and that it will never end.
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Children of Divorce
The myth of the resilient child is that it is OK for parents to do terrible things to their families and the children will be OK.
The myth is a lie unfaithful spouses say to shelter themselves from guilt for the deep, lasting hurt they selfishly force their children and family to go through. This lie is an act of cowardice. This lie is never told for the benefit of the children.
Other people prosper from this lie as well, namely those in the family courts and child support courts. These vultures feed off the same prey–children and faithful spouses. Armed with an artillery of lies and rationalizations, they reason that
- some marriages were not meant to be
- couples sometimes fall out of love
- sometimes things don’t work out
- sometimes it is better for couples to part ways and move on
- the children will do excellently in life if the parents will work out a good co-parenting relationship
One devious insinuation here is that the faithful parent is non-cooperative if he does not passively agree and cooperate with everything that is going on:
- shredding of children’s family for a tawdry affair
- depriving the family’s right to continue living together in love enjoying shared family assets in peace
- the desecration of the wedding vows and institution of marriage
- the cowardice of the legal community in prospering from injustice
- forcing parents to deliver children for “secular” counseling that may favor various forms of immoral and ungodly behavior
- stealing children, house, property, and income from the faithful spouse
- making the faithful spouse pay taxes on the losses if they require selling an appreciated property or liquidating a retirement fund prematurely.
- using federal and state tax money to bribe the courts to chase after the spouse who is the best potential source for theft.
- extorting exorbitant amounts of protection money from the innocent, faithful spouse after threatening him or her with extravagent losses.
- encouraging judges and attorneys to pursue unjust rulings in hopes of gaining return business
- attorneys who are asked specifically to object to a divorce and agree to until the court date where they tell the judge they did not file an objection.
- deprivation of family without due cause
- deprivation of home without due cause
- deprivation of property without due cause
- violation of the most common agreement — the wedding vow
- robbing faithful spouses to pay those who steal spouses
- lying and calling this Constitutional when it is obviously NOT
- experiencing a total lack of mercy, fairness, integrity on the part of a court system that is expected to be honorable
For objecting to these, a faithful parent can be considered angry, unreasonable, uncooperative, and likely to badmouth the other parent.
Meanwhile the children are sent off to live in the whorehouse of adultery with a couple sleeping in the wedding bed that was once undefiled while the children sleep in the next room over.
But, what does this do to the children?
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Children of Divorce
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